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The Integration of Abiding: Feeling, Thinking, Doing

All the aspects of our lives, every part of us (and all the parts within us) are integrated in this abiding in the love of Jesus

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Surrender to Love is Dangerous

And too often Christians, leaders and disciples, replace surrendering to authorities and obedience for surrendering to love. This opens wide the door for abuse. 

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Enemy Love as Forgiveness; or, Unsystematic Thought’s on God’s Love #6

Jesus breaks the “in group” bias of forgiveness for those like us and the “out group” fault-finding of those others.   In the presence of an enemy, will we… • Attack, or attune?• Escalate, or empathize?• War, or reconcile? It is clear how God responded… “While we enemies, we were reconciled to God through the […]

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While We Were Still Enemies: or, Unsystematic Thought’s on God’s Love #5

As I continue reflecting and growing in my awareness of God’s love for me, I’m thinking of enemies. Seems Christians on both sides are done with their enemies on the other side, would rather they just disappeared (or were destroyed). But God demonstrates a different kind of enemy-love.  What Enemies Reveal Like weakness, the presence […]

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When “Do Not Worry!” isn’t Harmful but Helpful

Jesus tells—commands us—not to worry. But this isn’t about attacking our emotions. But attaching to God. This command isn’t about changing how we feel. It’s about changing our perspective.  This command isn’t about denying our emotions. It’s about shifting how we see and what we seek. This shift comes from looking down, up, and around.  Read Luke […]

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On God’s Unique Kind of Love; or, Unsystematic Thought’s on God’s Love #4

In an age when everyone has their own take on things, when in ancient times each god had their own emphasis and activity, it is striking the God would demonstrate his “own love” to us.  God had to actively demonstrate his love to us because otherwise we wouldn’t believe it, or trust it, or rely […]

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God Proves to Us? or, Unsystematic Thought’s on God’s Love #3

I missed it! Diving again into God’s love, I missed the craziness that God would ever bother proving anything to us! The Gods and Kings Normally you had to prove yourself to the gods, to the kings, to the lords, to your city, to your family. They had nothing to prove to you—except what happens […]

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While We Were Weak: or, Unsystematic Thought’s on God’s Love #2

God’s demonstration of love: “While we were still weak…Christ died for the ungodly” (Rom. 5: 6).  The character of love is revealed in the midst of weakness.  • False love—as narcissism—preys on weakness rather than protecting it.  • False love—as self-loathing—points out weakness rather than providing for it. • False love—as fear—hides from weakness rather than […]

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From Abstraction to Demonstration of Love; or, Unsystematic Thought’s on God’s Love #1

Beginning again with God’s Love I’ve begun again to dive into God’s love—for me, for us, for everyone (and by “again” I mean perhaps for the first time as I continue to integrate the cognitive and affective aspects of life). Too often it feels that God’s love becomes an abstraction, separated from the concrete reality […]

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Why Enemy Love in the Borderland?

“You can’t hold on to love and live by the law of the jungle…” John Mark McMillan Why love? Why hold on to love? And why should I love my enemy? Worldly-Love might perpetuate the species. But Enemy-Love might save our humanity. Because maybe Enemy-Love is what makes us human, the most human.  And if human, then maybe […]